B.N.
I am a 26 year old mother of two wonderful kids. I have a boy who is two and a little girl who just turned four. When I read about your situation I was a little surprised. I am full blooded Portuguese. I am a first generation American, my husband is Vietnamese and so he doesn't speak portuguese. When we had our kids I wanted more than anything that they speek and understand Portuguese. I talked to a few Pediatricians and all told me that I should speak to them in my language because childrens brains are like sponges and that they know how to deciefer when you're speaking one language over another. I have tried to strickly speak portuguese with my kids along with their grandmother, and they understand and speak very well in english. Between reading books to your daughter, school,TV, and speaking to her in english you will have no problem. You actually will be giving her a great gift of possibly being bilingual. I would talk to a new doctor about your worries on speaking portuguese. Good luck.