Just Need Other Moms to Listen to Me Vent.

Wow! I'm so sorry... Just when you think you have something to look forward to, you get knocked down again! I understand how frustrating your situation can be. I've been in something very similar. Have you tried talking to your boyfriend to find out the whole story?? This may not be the situation, and I'm not taking his side by any means, but a lot of times when we question our own actions, we assume the worst from others. So, make sure things are what you think they are, and even still, talking things out never hurts anybody. You will get to the bottom of things (hopefully) and from there you will have to make some decisions. Again, I am sorry for your situation and I know the pain you are feeling. Things always work out for the best in the end. :)

Hi K.,
i'm here any time you need to vent. It's so sad that scum call themselves men, because all they infect ae hurt. I hope you see the light at the end of dunnel even if it's a long tunnel

I am not one who can give you advice on what to do. I am one that has been through many of life's "Speedbumps". MANY. And finally after 14 years of them, and they are still coming, I can strongly say, God doesn't give you anything you can't handle. I am not a very religious person, but after the things I have endured and continue to learn from, I believe that these are all little tests that you will not fail! They WILL make you stronger. Stronger now and so much stronger for your children! I wouldn't change my past for anything. I do know that you need to try your hardest to focus on YOU! You can't take care of your children if you can't take care of yourself. "If momma ain't happy, ain't nobody happy!" Take LOTS of deep breaths, okay? You will get through this! :)

Are you sure about the other woman ?
Have you talked with him about this ?
I believe unless you are married, and sometimes even then, you really need to hold on to your idependence and job, for your own well being.I'm sure you have heard all the old sayings
"Don't count your chickens before they hatch." and "Don't put all your eggs in one basket."
Well these certainly ring true when dealing with men in general.

You'll get through this - focus on your lil one and head up. Anytime you need to vent i'll listen. I am the mother of 2 - a 3yr and 16mos old.
Take care

Hi Kim,

I'm sorry to hear you are having a hard time. Life seems to always challenge you when you think life is getting better. I have not walked in your shoes, but I'm willing to walk next to you. I'm here if you want to vent.