JFF: What Is One Thing You Would...

Me? I'd have more patience.... or if we're talking in a physical sense, I need/want a tummy tuck!

Him: Again, more patience. And understanding. He has a hardtime thinking outside of the box, meaning, he doesn't get that someone other than himself might actually be right once in a while ;)

Other than that, we're perfectly imperfect!

About myself, that I had more girl friends where I live. Most of mine are where I grew up about 2 hours away.

About my husband, that he would have a hobby.

I would make myself less critical of him.
I would change a lot of things about him. See? I told you I need to be less critical!
But honestly, I would love to improve both of our communication and conflict resolution skills .

About me- like Krista here, I would definitely change my compulsiveness and my rigidity. I would be more openly affectionate.

About my husband- Less passive aggressive. Other than that, I can't think of a thing. ;)

About myself... I would make myself significantly less rigid and compulsive. I worry all the time about things and have a real need for "planning" that gets in the way of just relaxing and enjoying my life at times.

My husband... I would want him to be more affectionate. He's a wonderful husband and father, but he's just not a "huggy" "cuddly" person- neither are his parents, so it makes sense. I've told him that on occassion and he does make an effort, but it would be nice to get more cuddle time with him!

I would change the way I deal with stress - instead of eating, I would work out. I think that would be great. OR just waking up tomorrow a size 4 with perky breasts and no stretchmarks would be nice ;o) LOL

I'd change how my husband stresses about every. little. thing. And if there isn't anything legitimate TO stress about, he'll make something up! Seriously, when work, family and money situations are good....he'll find a little 'bump' or 'ache' that needs to be evaluated and tested - only to (always, every time) find out that it's absolutely nothing!

I would rid myself of my anxiety issues and learn to relax. For my hubby, same as Nikki. The passive aggresivness. Oh, and I would also love a booty. :)

I'd love to have my 24" waist back and thinner thighs. I've NEVER had thin thighs. When I was at my smallest, one of my thighs was only a few inches shy of my waist.

I like my hips and 'J-Lo' booty. :)

For my hubby... I'd like him to be able to just sit and relax with me more often than once every 3-4mos. He's always doing something. He can't stand to sit for more than a few minutes. I know... For some, that would be a blessing, but when it's all the time, you start to feel lonely.

I have a booty - I used to hate it. My husband loves it - so I have grown to as well. (It is not quite j-lo big, but it is a bubble all right).

I would change my reaction to stress. I wish I could calmly evaluate EVERY situation without letting the stress factor come in to play. =(

Physically - I would change the brown line on my stomach! And my belly button. It looks weird (at least to me) after kids.

I would make hubby nicer in the middle of the night when the baby wakes. Nicer to me - he is always nice to the baby. =) And I would also make him stop snoring!

thanks for the laugh!

Hubby, yes/no. Depends on whether or not he's witching. Getting much crabbier as he ages. On the other hand, I can laugh at a whole lot more!

But: since your ? was changing something about myself....I would have to say that I wish I could stay motivated to lose the extra weight, which would then help my health.

I would change how anal my hubby is about his truck. I have to share my time with his darn truck..he is always tinkering with it and inventing things that are 'broke" but really are not.

For me, I NEED to change my job...or at least the hours I work. That would make all the other things I hate about myself (I.E. weight/working out, cleaning house/having more time to do those things) fall into place.

I wish that I didn't automatically take any suggestions people make to me as criticisms. It seems as though I am constantly saying, "I'm sorry" and really, I have no idea what I'm sorry about. Now my daughter (2 1/2) is saying, "I'm sorry. It's my fault" every time she drops something. Yikes. Gotta work on that.
Physically, nothing is really so far gone that it's not curable by being more dedicated to exercise and eating well. The only thing holding me back is my own laziness, truly.
My husband - STOP LOSING WEIGHT EVERY TIME HE GOES FOR A 10 MINUTE JOG! I mean, come on! He started light jogging while I was pregnant (we were jogging together at the same speed) and he managed to LOSE 20 pounds as I was gaining mine! And he wasn't even heavy! And he eats whatever he wants! Grrr!

I wish I could learn to "play" with my kids. I have no imagination whats so ever. I sit with the kids but they always tell me what to say or what "Barbie" is supposed to be saying. I wish I could be just as creative as them.

I wish hubby wasn't a Farter.. The guy has ALOT of gas... I still remember the first time he farted in front of me when we first started going out. I was totally grossed out by it and if it were not for the fact that we were out in the middle of no where making out.. I would have walked home. :)