My husband & I had a "quickie wedding" when I was about 9 weeks pregnant by which I mean the mayor of the city we lived in (a family friend) married us on a Friday evening at city hall with only my parents & sister attending. The 5 of us went out to dinner & that was the whole she-bang (no pun intended). There was no church, no reception, etc. That certainly didn't stop any of my family or friends from attending the baby shower that was given to me & thank goodness for that!
Honestly, I was never planning on having a big white dress type wedding to begin with, but once we found out we were pregnant much sooner than we'd planned on, I REALLY didn't want all of my family to be there. Everyone knew what had happened & even though it all worked out in the end, at the time (21 years old) I was kind of embarassed. I sure did need everything I was given at the baby shower, though, and was extremely thankful & grateful to everyone who came.