A.B.
Ok, first of all -- how lucky you are!! I am so envious -- it sounds like so much fun to plan a little girl's bday party. Some ideas for you:
- Pinata (have your little girl help make it earlier in the week, so she is extra proud and excited! -- paper mache, a baloon or two, and markers and/or tissue paper.
- Scavenger Hunt -- all of the girls work together to find the "booty" at the end (I'm guessing will be an even bigger hit right now w/ Pirates of the Carribean being so popular)
- Decorate your own cupcakes -- with a much smaller birthday cake to blow out candles, as the kids will eat their own cupcakes instead of a piece of a larger cake...make sure to have lots of diff. colors of frosting, sprinkles, red hots, gummy stuff, M&Ms, crushed oreos, etc. -- usually kids LOVE this.
That should help to fill up a good part of the night. I haven't read your other responses yet, so I'm interested in what others have suggested!
P.S.: I tried to give you ideas that wouldn't cost a lot...so many people spend soooo much on birthday parties these days, but I think the kids like the more creative, rather than the more expensive (that is until they reach teenagerdom)!