Oh! Boy! I went through this it sounds like my x.
I don't mean to be negative but my x husband of 16 years had the same reaction when I confronted about him having a love affair.
He got mad everytime I mentioned it and put all the blame on me to make me feel like I was delusional.
He even said he was "tired" he couldn't say of what.
Then finally after 3 full years of his rejection of me including sleeping in a seperate room I had enough.
Everyone including my pastors said maybe it was just me.
Well I humbled my self and ask God to show me if it was me.
I also asked God to expose what was wrong.
He sure did.
It turns out that my husband of 16 years 2 kids later, was having a 3 year affair under my nose with my sons elementary school teacher. He left his email open and my teen daughter caught him. She read an email he left open of a love letter he was sending her. Turns out they were web camming each other too. Watch that internate. Alot of temptation.
No offense to school teachers but lately alot of them are acting pretty desperate.
Breaking up familys having affairs with kids at school.
Crazy stuff nowadays just look at CNN lately.
I'm not paranoid but this whole thing including my divorce has made me a whole lot wiser.
What man refuses sex unless he is getting it some where else.
Not neccesaly a woman it could be porno on the net or mags.
My husband was a youth pastor and was living a double life.
So don't let the "christian" or "Godly status" fool you.
A MAN CAN BE A GREAT PROVIDER, FATHER, FRIEND AND STILL BE CHEATING. MINE WAS ALL THOSE THINGS.
Pray and pray hard for God to expose the problem and that God will do what he thinks is best for you and your babys.
God will come through.
I will be praying for you T..
Don't blame your self and go crazy racking your brain as to what you are doing wrong.
You may not be doing anything wrong.
If he is in his late 30's or early 40's like mine was he may be going through the man's mid life crisis. When they feel like they need a new woman in their lives. ATTENTION FROM A STRANGE WOMAN.
Evangelist S. f.c.
USA
P.S. Above all stay calm and loving.
Love God, love your self and then express your love toward others. WALK IN THE SPIRIT OF LOVE.
LOVE CONQUERS ALL!
IT IS THE BEST WEAPON OF ALL.
Let love win!
SAY THIS PRAYER OVER YOUR HUSBAND INSERTING HIS NAME EVERYWHERE I PUT THE WORD HUSBAND.Proverbs 5 (New King James Version)
New King James Version (NKJV)
Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson, Inc.
Proverbs 5
The Peril of Adultery
1 My son (HUSBAND'S NAME),
pay attention to MY (GOD'S) wisdom;
Lend your ear to my(GOD'S) understanding,
2 That you may preserve discretion,
And your lips may keep knowledge.
3 For the lips of an immoral woman drip honey,
And her mouth is smoother than oil;
4 But in the end she is bitter as wormwood,
Sharp as a two-edged sword.
5 Her feet go down to death,
Her steps lay hold of hell.[a]
6 Lest you (HUSBAND'S NAME) ponder her path of life—
Her ways are unstable;
You(HUSBAND'S NAME) do not know them.
7 Therefore hear me now, my children (HUSBAND'S NAME),
And do not depart from the words of my (GOD'S MOUTH) mouth.
8 Remove your (HUSBAND'S NAME) way far from her,
And do not go near the door of her house,
9 Lest you (HUSBAND'S NAME) give your honor to others,
And your years to the cruel one;
10 Lest aliens be filled with your wealth,
And your labors go to the house of a foreigner;
11 And you mourn at last,
When your flesh and your body are consumed,
12 And say:
“ How I(MY HUSBAND) have hated instruction,
And my heart despised correction! (replace this with my husband will love instruction and not despise correction)
13 I have not(MY HUSBAND) obeyed the voice of my teachers, (replace with; my husband will obey the voice of God's teachers).
Nor (MY HUSBAND)inclined my ear to those who instructed me! (replace this with my husband will incline his ear to those who intruct him in the Lord.
14 I(MY HUSBAND) was on the verge of total ruin,
In the midst of the assembly and congregation.”
15 (MY HUSBAND WILL)Drink water from your (HIS) own cistern,
And running water from your (HIS) own well.
16 Should your (MY HUSBAND'S) fountains be dispersed abroad,
Streams of water in the streets?
17 Let them be only your (MY HUSBAND) own,
And not for strangers with you.
18 Let your (MY HUSBAND'S) fountain be blessed,
And rejoice with the wife (YOUR NAME) of your youth.
19 As a loving deer and a graceful doe,
Let her (YOUR NAME) breasts satisfy you (YOUR HUSBAND) at all times;
And always be enraptured with her (YOUR NAME) love.
20 For why should you (MY HUSBAND'S NAME), my son, be enraptured by an immoral woman,
And be embraced in the arms of a seductress?
21 For the ways of man are before the eyes of the LORD,
And He ponders all his paths.
22 His own iniquities entrap the wicked man,
And he is caught in the cords of his sin.
23 He (MY HUSBAND WILL NOT DIE,) for lack of instruction,
And in the greatness of his(replace with "MY HUSBAND WILL NOT FOLLY") folly he(HUSBAND'S NAME) shall ("NOT") go astray.
IN JESUS NAME
THIS IS THE WORD OF GOD TURNED INTO A PRAYER WITH YOUR NAMES INSERTED IN IT. THE WORD OF GOD IS A POWERFUL TOOL. TRY IT YOU WILL SEE RESULTS.