J.P.
1. When having a bowel movement, put your feet up on a little stool to take the pressure off of the rectum.
2. Collinsonia Root by Standard Process. I took this during my pregnancy when the hemorrhoids were just starting. They were gone in 4 days. Some of my friends have used this and it's safe for the baby, but it took soem of them a few weeks, depending ont he severity.
3. Kegel....strengthen up that muscle, otherwise when you are pushing that baby out, you're gonna push your butt out too. that muscle keeps everything up where they all belong.
4. MagChelate from Bio-Spec rocks. It also helped me sleep.