I'm so sorry honey. You have more than your share of uber-stress right now.
First, take a deep breath.
Secondly, tackle ONE THING AT A TIME.
Thirdly, take care of yourself first then worry about everyone else. This
way you can be of help to everyone else.
Wait for the results of your blood test.
At your Monday appointment ask what is the next step in taking care of
those cysts. (Ex. must they be removed? What type of surgery is it?
What can you expect of the recovery time? etc.)
Next, think of your father (you can think of doing this before your appt).
See how he is doing. Has he had his surgery yet? Can you speak with
him in the hospital? Call him. If you cannot visit him, calling to speak to
him to reassure him is the next best thing. Find out what they will be
doing in his surgery so you know what to expect. I've known several ppl
to have had a certain type of surgery to help w/major heart attacks.
They were very successful.
Maybe don't extend the invitation to your sis & her hubby to move into
your home until you feel a little stronger. In the meantime, you can send
her a care package. If you talk to your hubby about your sis & her husb
moving in with you, then you can call her to see how she is doing
extending the invite at that time.
Take care of yourself by eating right, taking vitamins, getting rest, call
friends to have a short chat with, exercise to relieve stress & kick in the
endorphins (at least go for moderately paced walks if you can). Lastly,
try to find some humor (watch the comedy channel) to laugh & give you
a boost.
Meditate if that's your thing.
Make a gratitude list. Make it short. List 5 things you are extremely
grateful for then keep it in your pocket or purse for constant review.