**If you can, get SOMEONE to come over and help.
So that you can study.
You cannot skip that. Or you will fall behind and not graduate.
Get some help.
Since your Husband is at work, those hours.
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So you have 2 kids now and a 3rd on the way?
You said you have a 19 month old and you refer to "my 2 year old..."
Your Partner... has to help.
It is not a choice, but a responsibility, for the Man or other Partner. Too.
Or get a Mommy Helper or Nanny.
My Husband goes to school, and works, and we have 2 kids.
It is not easy.
If he didn't have me around, he would sink the ship.
It takes TWO... to manage the kids/family ESPECIALLY when one Spouse/partner is going to school.
Studying and grades, are important. You cannot compromise that. Either.
AND it takes organization.
Getting help whenever you can or asking for help, from grandparents/family/friends etc.
Going to school AND working, takes ALL of my Husband's time. BUT... he puts in face time and time, with the kids. Too.
It is a 'have to', not a choice.
It takes BOTH partners, to make it work and the other Partner, KNOWING full well, that studying/school... takes a TON of time.... ALL the time. Too. Thus, they HAVE TO, help.
Or your schooling, will sink and fail.
What good is that?
When I was in college, my friend was pregnant.... and she was a single parent. HER family pitched in and helped. She went to school and graduated. ALL on her own and sheer willpower.
She did it. She was working too.
Going to school and working, despite morning sickness etc. She talked to her Professors, too. She did it anyway she could. And was resourceful and was not shy about asking for help.