D.S.
M., I had some of the same issues with my son early on. What I did was finger feed him using a syringe with a little tube. You put the little tube on your index finger and then put it in her mouth and while she sucks, you slowly press the plunger on the syringe, which is filled with breast milk or formula. It is hard to find the syringe and tubing but a lactation consultant can help you find them. I got mine from the lactation consultant at Mercy Gilbert. I learned this from my sister-in-law who did this to supplement her twins in the beginning. Good luck and don't give up!