Holiday tipping.......add to Regular Check or Give Separately in a Gift Bag?

Updated on December 13, 2012
S.L. asks from Appleton, WI
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I have always tipped my cleaning ladies and my nail lady by adding the extra money onto the regular payment check I write for their services. This year I was thinking of giving them either cash, a check or a gift card in a gift bag instead so it "looks" more like a gift. What do you think?

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☆.A.

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Service people want cash. They notice the difference. Add to the check.

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S.S.

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separate. It is just nicer to know you have the extra gift. Also if it is in one check it may go straight to bills instead of being used as a treat. I know when I did daycare if the money was separate I was more likely to squirrel it away and use it on me. If it was just added to the paycheck them it ended up in the bill money.

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D.F.

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I think your really nice to go the extra mile. They do want cash or check and putting in a nice gift bag is special.

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K.L.

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I always give my cleaning lady a big tip at Christmas time. I put it in a separate Christmas card and write a thank you type note inside. It does seems more like a "gift" that way, to me.

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A.G.

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I put it in a Christmas card and write a nice note.

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K.B.

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I give my cleaning ladies cash. Actually, the service I use is owned by a couple, but they don't really do any of the work. I found out that the gifts I had been leaving in the past weren't actually getting distributed to the ladies in the manner I had thought. So now I secretly give the gift (cash) to the ladies directly. That means there usually isn't a card or gift box or anything. I just wait for them to be alone in a room, go in, say a few words, and slip them some cash.

They definitely appreciate it and I think they like cash over a gift card.

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A.G.

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I've done both and they'll notice the increase either way. However, I had one attendant who thought she got a huge raise, and that made for a sticky situation, so I had to give her 2 different checks the next year.

I think they will love a separate gift card though...who wouldn't?

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