Help with My Dilemma

You can't keep going like that and they've had more than enough time to find a replacement. I would walk in and tell them that you have a job, school and family and last you checked you can't split yourself in half and be in two places at once and that they had more than enough time to replace you yet they haven't bothered to and you are so out of there. Or if you don't have the heart to do it...I wouldn't mind making the call for you...what's the number?

From what I read, it seems that they will continue using you in that manner until you put your foot down. Family comes first, school second and work third. Go in and talk to the boss at the other store and lay it all out in front of him. The people you were training should have picked up the system by now. Tell him/her that X day will be your last day there and after that, they're on their own.

"i dont know what to do it seems so easy if we werent me to just tell them i cant and that is that but its not so easy when its me to say it."
Use what I call the "Mommy voice," you know, the one that you use and your kids have no choice to to comply.

First, stop, and reread what you just wrote. But instead of seeing this as your problem, see it as someone elses. What would you suggest that that person do?

My suggestion is this, tell them that you will be there to help out for X amount of time. That way it allows them to find a replacement and you can help train the new individual or if they slack, it's there problem. You did what you said you would do, you put in a valid notice, so you shouldn't feel bad about leaving. It's a JOB! Your education and family should come before that. You should put yourself and your wants and dreams before that. Take a little time out for your family after that (maybe a weekend getaway). And I'm sure everyone including yourself will be happy.

If the store you are supposed to be working at can see that it is affecting your home and schooling then you need to just tell them that you can no longer help them out and why. Corporate office can see that you don't need to be there anymore so I say just tell them you can feel bad about it but you need to do what's right for you because you're right they are taking advantage of you.

I'd say the best way to do it is to write a kind, tactful letter. That way you don't have to worry about telling them face to face and a lot of times when you resign from a position, you have to put it in writing anyway. Give them two weeks notice which is the usual. Tell them you enjoyed helping them get on their way and working with them, but you have many other obligations to attend to. They will understand and that gives them that two weeks to get someone else in there. All this stress may be another reason why you aren't getting pregnant... CUT BACK!!! Give them the letter soon... don't worry about them being upset, think about how much you should do this for you (and your family, maybe even FUTURE family)!!! Good luck.

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hope this helps, C.,