K.W.
T.,
Perhaps this situation will take a generous amount of grace and understanding on your part until your mom adjusts and accepts the reality of you moving. It sounds like she is expressing her worries out loud to you rather than criticizing you (even though that's probably how it sounds to you). Maybe there are some extra steps you could take to ease her mind, help her feel that she is/will still be an important part of your day to day life. It sounds like you are very busy so most likely she has spent a lot of time with your little one and has grown attached to being needed again. Maybe you could set up a blog site to post pics/videos of your little one? www.blogger.com has a user friendly site, among many others. Even if you don't want to go the route of a blog there are several photo sharing websites where you can upload your pics and then give your mom a login so she can view them. Or, with less technology, be consistent with taking pictures, get them developed and send her the doubles on a frequent basis. My parents and my husbands parents are all out of state and I can tell the joy in their voice when we share even the smallest of updates about our daughter with them, they are just trying to gleen as much as possible to get to know our daughter and make sure she remembers them. It's tough no matter what but it's easier when I take the time to let them in and enjoy too. And in the end it's always good to maintain a support network of loved ones. Good luck!