B.C.
SEND her something!! I lost a baby at 6 weeks due to a tubal pregnancy. She was 3 months along at that point with my niece. Her then 9 year old daughter made me a flower vase out of a coffee can and put flowers in it and my sister gave me a card with a poem about pregnancy loss in it. It meant soooooo much to me!!! After that, she went on to buy me a figurine of a baby boy angel on a cloud (precious moments) and gave it to me. I loved it so much. She was really the only one to recognize the pregnancy as I felt it. So many people will be telling her "It was God's will" or (even worse), "There must have been something wrong with the baby". She needs support!!! Don't be shy! Acknoledge it! She'll appreciate it, I assure you!