my four years plus baby cry fr such such reason's all day I have one year baby with me also.
......His four years elder bro beat him &tease him don't know what to do pliz help help both r boys. .......
most 4 year olds who are beaten and teased cry.
go get parenting classes now. do it for the sake of all 3 of these children who desperately need to be parented.
khairete
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Your 4 year old is being beat and teased by his older brother and you think the issue is the 4 year old?
You didn't give many details, so this is the best I can do -
If your 8 year old is beating on the 4 year old, it means they need a lot more supervision. They can't be left alone in a room together.
It also means that your 8-year-old needs more direction and discipline in his life so that he stops behaving this way.
It isn't unusual for 4-year-olds of either gender to cry for various reasons, but it sounds like your little one has more to handle than he should. The problem is not about being sensitive, it is about his home life being stressful.
You need to step up your household management and parenting, because whatever you're doing now isn't working. I can't make specific suggestions because I don't know what is going on in your home.
Put your oldest in time out every time he lays a hand on his brother.
You can't let them hurt each other.
You tell the 8 yr old to stop teasing and hitting his brother. If he does you punish him by putting him in time out every single time.
If his older brother beats him or teases him, you tell the older brother no. You tell him the new rule is we treat each other with respect. If you hurt your brother your consequence will be a time out and you will be separated. If you tease him you need to go to your room and find something else to do. That is not kind. Then follow through. Your 8 year old needs to learn consequences for being mean to the 4 year old. If not one day the 4 year old will be beating up on the baby!
Your 4 year old should not be beating and teasing ANYONE, but especially not his 1 year old baby brother. Separate them. Do not allow your 4 year old to hit or be cruel to others. Keep in mind, dear, that if your preschooler is hitting and speaking in a mean way to other people...he is learning it from you. Either because you are doing it, or you are allowing it.
As for crying? He needs time, attention and stimulation. He also needs consistency. If every day is different and he never knows what to expect, he's going to have a difficult time. If you are not consistent with rules and expectations, he's going to be difficult to manage.
I suggest reading the book "Parenting with Love and Logic." by Foster and Cline. I think it would help you quite a lot. You can find it at your local library.
If this is true, then you need to deal with your bully child. If I got beaten up all day and my mother did nothing and I felt ignored between the bully and the baby, I would be sad and depressed, too. Your child is reacting to his environment.
