I am play date central.
Always have play dates at our home, for my kids.
Sometimes, there are like 8 kids over. And I have 2 kids... and they both have friends over, at the same time.
But NO... I never ever ever, "expect" the other parents to reciprocate.
Never.
Why?
Because I just don't.
I have playdates, because I want to.
Others, may not like to be Host to play dates.
Fine.
Or, their home may be not something they are prepared to have kids, over to. Maybe it is messy etc.
So what.
Fine.
The thing is, I never wait for someone to reciprocate. Nor do I expect it.
Many Moms I know, in fact, do not like having play dates. Not because they are busy. They just do not want... many kids over at their house.
I don't care what their reason is.
I have play dates for my kids, because I want to.
I don't expect other homes or Moms, to do the same.
And I don't ever try to figure out or analyze, why... other homes/Moms may not have play dates.
My kids' friends like coming to our home.
That is all that concerns me.
And I know all my kids' friends Moms, very well.
And we like having them over.