So my girlfriend who works out and looks so great asked me to send a picture of my problem areas. so i sent her a message saying i dont have any sexy undies to take a good picture and no angles make my butt look good that i just have a big one. well this copied in to my boyfriends dad. so embarrassed. so i explained to my boyfriend what happened and he now thinks I am cheating and Im not. I explained to him that she wants me to work out with her and since i havent seen her in a long time she wanted pictures. Now he isnt talking to me what do I do?
So now that its Monday and things have kinda blown over its better. but he was really just using all of this to go out with his friends and party. Time for him to grow up. but we had a long talk and we will see how things go. thanks for all your help.
Maybe there's something he's keeping from you...
You told the truth that's all there is to it. Best of luck love.
Can't you just show him the original email back and forth from the friend? Also wouldn't his dad see the original email and thus solve the issue- as in also see the email address of said friend?? Sounds like to me that perhaps there is more going on here... but that is just me.
If it is as straight forward as you say, easy fix by showing him all the proof. If you can't weelllll then nuff said.
IF your boyfriend is always accusing you of cheating then honey I have to tell you usually the one accusing the other of cheating is the one that is doing it!
I think he is just saying that to you so he has some freedom to do what he wants and make you feel guilty in the process!
I have been in a relationship just like you are. I am so glad I got out.
Stick to your guns and hold your head high you DID NOTHING WRONG!
First - Your girlfriend. Creepy weirdo. Get rid of her.
Second - If your boyfriend is really that insecure, you need to reconsider your relationship.
You girlfriend sounds like a gross weirdo, seriously I workout w my girlfriends and we don't ask for pics of each other's problem areas, whether we have seen each other lately or not. You don't need to send pics to anyone to discuss problem areas, especially since she is such a pro at it. And your boyfriend sounds paranoid.. but he has a good reason b/c your story makes hardly any since. Just reexplain. If he has issues, then you are better off without the TWO of them.
*If he is always accusing you of cheating, then that is a red flag that HE is the one cheating. It's a common sign of cheaters.
Just from personal experience--usually if a guy has no basis for accusing you of cheating, it tends to turn out that he is the cheater. You might want to think about that, but don't accuse HIM unless you have evidence.
My girlfriend didn't want pictures of me before we started working out.
If your boyfriend doesn't believe you or trust you? Dump him. You shouldn't have to explain yourself more than once that it was a mistake.
I would drop both of them - the girlfriend and the boyfriend!!
I'm sorry - I know it's tough and hurts. But really - you don't need this in your life.
Ummm, I would question anyone that wanted pictures of my bum or anywhere else for that matter. She could be showing those pictures to anyone! I love my friends but sometimes their husbands/boyfriends/parents/children get on their phone and I would never risk it!
Your boyfriend M. or M. not believe you. I would stop bringing it up and let the truth stand for itself. If he leaves you over this then he wasn't worth it and if he doesn't then he likely believes you and just doesn't want to dwell on it.
If she "really knows what she's doing when it comes to working out" then she wouldn't need pictures. And why would your response to her be that you don't have "sexy undies"? What does that have to do with anything? In your first sentence you said your friend "looks so good" but in the second to last sentence you said you "haven't seen her in a long time". So how do you know she looks good but she doesn't know you look bad? I think there is WAY more to this. And how would your bf's dad get "copied" in on this? That takes a little more effort to put in another name or number for a text. I'm sorry but I just don't believe this and there must be a LOT more in your history with your bf for him to not talk to you about this. Good luck.
how does a response to a message a 'girlfriend' sent, have your boyfriends 'dad' copied?????? That's a little creepy in itself
The girlfriend asking for the pics didn't freak me out that much. My girlfriends were in the room when I delivered my son and saw a heck of a lot more than my "problem areas". If she knows what she is doing, like personal training, I could see her wanting know. Did she ask for the picture in undies or did you just assume that?
As to the boyfriend, depending on how long we had been together and how intimate we were, if I explained to my man and he didn't believe me, I would drop him like a bad habit. No matter how much someone says they love you, if they have a chance to believe in you and choose not to, then they just don't love you enough. Nothing is worth have your character and dignity called into question like that, and if he's doing it already and you aren't even married, it isn't going to change down the road.
ummm.. how old is this guy? sounds immature.. if he does this now, imagine if you got married.. yikes.. I say, don't worry about it and get on with your business... even if it means he stops talking to you. better you learn this now, then finding out years from now he is so jealous..
Do you still have the message from your friend asking for the picture? If so I would show it to him. Unfortunatly if he does not trust you you have other issues. And if he acuses you of cheating it might be from a guilty contiounce. (SP) Sound like you may need some couples theropy if you are wanting it to work out especally if you have a child together.
Good luck and God Bless!
Are you living together? Have you ever cheated before? Seems like he doesn't trust you. Is this maybe a good excuse for him to get out of the relationship? Seems like you made a mistake and he could get over it after hearing your explanation.
Go out and celebrate!!!
I have no idea why you even bothered with the story about the picture. The post is the fact that he is a very jealous person and is always accusing you no matter what the situation.
Why do you want a BF who treats you like this? What's the purpose of having a BF? I thought it was to determine if you are compatible and want to make a committment to share your life together. You obviously don't want to make a committment ("we have been off and on").
So so so funny Amanda G. That's got to win a prize or something. Everybody sends texts to the wrong person at least once. Mine happened to go the wrong sister...and of course it had to be something about her. So instead of making a big deal...she never mentioned it. Whew!!! But dealing with a boyfriend or husband...I never could understand the jealousy thing...well at least not when you have a solid relationship! I wouldn't give him the pleasure of your begging and pleading!
