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You have great reponses concerning first time day care. One of the best ideas is doing the short stays, increasing the time each day.
I agree that once you leave, the child is fine, and that it is harder on you.
Being a Kindergarten teacher, my 2 went to day care until they were school age. Now I am helping raise my grandaughter who goes to day care, too. She learns so much, especially social skills.
I can tell which children have been to day care, which ones stay at home with a mom that works with them, or not.
A baby adjusts much easier, becomes more alert with all the new sounds around them, and enjoys all the new faces.
It was harder on me when my children started school, because I could not take them to school the first day, because I was at school greeting everyone else's children, drying tears (usually the moms and some dads, too) and comforting everyone and letting them know that we will have a good first day.
I was blessed with in-laws (my children are very close to their grandparents) that lived 10 minutes away, who took them to school the first day. They loved being involved in all aspects of their lives.