Hey Lyn, this is firsthand from my sister in Duluth, gosh, she took time to write you!!!
Greetings,
My name is Bonnie, and I'm the sister of a Sparta mother on this blog. I've been through bunion surgery on both feet so I'm happy to chime in with my feedback to the mother inquiring about surgery for her son.
I had bunions that got progressively worse through my early teens into my adult years. I had to have a orthopedic doctor's approval for surgery before it could be done to prove it wasn't just for aesthetics but true need for improving my foot structure. They were doozies - - the doctor had never seen them that size on anyone 35 years old. They didn't ache all the time, and I was a very active excercise walker, but my big toe was essentially working it's way toward growing underneath my second toe. And finding shoes that fit was a challenge for as long as I could recall.
I chose to do one foot at a time (separated one year apart), because dealing with crutches is a lot easier than having both done and being in a wheelchair and fully dependent on others. After surgery, I needed to stay in bed for nearly two weeks each time keeping my foot fully elevated on two big king-size pillows, including sleeping that way for weeks to keep swelling down and assist with healing. I was able to work at home from bed with a laptop, but for your student you might want to look at doing this once school gets out in summer to avoid missing classes. I had my surgery in November one year and October the next, and dealing with winter weather was not fun and not advised. It was just how timing worked out for me (luckily I did at least get out of shoveling!)
My bunions were serious, so with each surgery I was on crutches for a full 8 weeks putting no pressure on my foot (foot off the ground 100%), followed by one week walking with crutches in the big surgical boot to acclimate to putting pressure on it again, and then a week of walking just in the boot with no crutches. After those 10 weeks was I crutch free and out of the surgical boot, but needed to see a physical therapist for about 5 sessions to work on muscle strength, flexibility, and balance. It took daily dedication to continue the physical therapy excercises at home and work slowly towards full recovery, including weeks of very slow walks in the neighborhood to slowly get my walking strength back. All in all, I would say from surgery to feeling like 100% again it was about 5-6 months each. I had an excellent doctor (Dr. Stacey Nipp, Northern Foot and Ankle in Duluth, MN - - maybe they have a similar office in the Sparta / LaCrosse area). I had appointments with her reguarly for foot x-rays and bandage changes.
Depending on the surgery your son would have, it might be less time on crutches and for recovery.
There are the difficulties of managing stairs on crutches if you have them, and bathing is a bit of a trial too. But a person catches on and gets through learning new tricks along the way.
Pain wise, foot surgery was not all that bad. I cannot stomach painkillers and exclusively used an alternation of Advil and Extra Strength Tylenol. Keeping your foot up to relieve swelling is the #1 thing to do, and also treating it like a time-bomb so as not to bump it or fall on it.
With a great surgeon and following doctor's orders my feet are healthy and hopefully will stay this way. My bunions are hereditary, and do pose the risk of maybe one day coming back, although the chances are small. I was prescribed orthopedic inserts to wear in my shoes to support my arch, which is supposed to be a preventative measure.
Good luck!!