L.B.
Hi M.
I had my first son 10 days after my 20th B-day, so I was also a "younger mom" My kids are now 15 and 10. I can say that sometimes men don't relate that well to babies. It certainly isn't an excuse to not help you out, but sometimes it gets easier for them to relate as the child gets older. I can remember when my kids were that age, and just being able to sit and stare at them playing and wonder what they were thinking, while my husband was more mezmerized with the TV. My brother in law was the same way. I would be willing to bet that when you daughter is a bit older, and able to do more active things, and hold a conversation, that her daddy will be able to relate better. Also, sometimes as women, we just expect men to just swoop in and help, when really we need to ask for help, because they don't know we want it unless we ask. (They are slightly dense when it comes to that department) Good Luck!!!