J.B.
Well I haven't actually seen the post you are referring to but I was on the other end of this recently and OUCH! My friend got really upset with M. about something I actually didn't do, it was a true misunderstanding. She came to M. angry and then I blew up at her and we had a big ole fight over nothin'. She came back and apologized and I forgave her and I apologized for overreacting about it, but we aren't the same. We haven't talked since and it was all over absolutely nothing...so sad. I know I could call her but I feel I never know if I am going to make her mad without even knowing or meaning too and she could call but I don't know what makes her hold off. So yeah, I agree that sometimes in friendship more grace and less offense is the best way to go.