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Yikes. Just a heads up, if you go to court, the judge will likely keep it 50/50 and make it so you HAVE to stay local where it isn't a burden for EITHER of you to get him to and from school every day. Its not your ex's fault that you are no longer in this other relationship and you have to move. Its also VERY unlikely that the judge will now give the father LESS parenting time, just because you are moving and its inconvenient. DO NOT just assume that because you are the mom, the judge will be in your favor. Sometimes it works like that, but usually with the dead beat dads, and your ex doesn't appear to be one. This is a tough situation and I wish you the best. Good luck.