A.P.
K.,
Good news I know how you feel. i have very curly hair (since Birth) and i strive to look professional everyday. First point is to have a GOOD hair cut. second there is a line called Deva Curl. they specialize in products for curly hair. you can find them online and at specific salons that focus on curly hair. There is a no-poo shampoo that does not foam(no sulfates in the soap to dry your hair out) there are also great light leave in strays that allow the curls to bounce naturally and lay in place.
do not wash your hair everyday either. curly hair dries out quickly. Mouse is actully not recomended because is can dry out the hair.
so try the Deva Curl and get a great cut (even if you are groiwing it out) and dont forget that at about 4-6 months post pregnancy you may see changed ot your hair anyway. it may fall out, get dry etc. hormone changes in your system do that.
About me- I am a 35 year old professional and mother of three. 5, 2.5 and 7 months. Ive been there and there is Hope.