We used cloth diapers for two years with the second one and I am SO GLAD we did. I also am a SAHM, tho after doing it I don't think I could have if I worked. I couldn't get the older women in the church nursery who used CD on their own to change her, much less other care givers. No one seems to be able to conceive of using CD anymore....
I would HIGHLY recommend you NOT try the chinese prefolds from walmart/babies r us. They are NOT made for actual CD'ing. There are chinese prefolds out there that are if that's the way you want to go....
We used Bum Genius 2.0 & 3.0 pocket diapers and love every minute of it! They are almost EXACTLY the same concept as disposables in terms of shape/use. We started with the 2.0 bc that's what was out when we purchased. I actually started with a starter kits from one of the websites and bought some off ebay to compare - a BG all-in-one (AIO), mother eden?, happy heiny, homemade, and several others.....diff styles....cloth with rubber pants, AIO, pocket....we found the BG to be the best for us. They are one size fits all so you only have to buy one set instead of a new set every time baby grows. We invested about $400 in 24 dipes, detergent, liners, 2 pail liners, and 2 day bags all from cottonbabies.com. We will use the everything with the next baby.
My favorite thing about the BG's, besides the OSFA, the softness, and the convenience was their ONE YEAR GUARANTEE. Which we used, btw. The elastic on our 2.0's wore out as they recommended bleaching the dipes once a month. It ate the elastic. I no longer bleach dipes. But I returned the dipes according to their policy and procedures - all 24 of them - and they replaced them no questions asked with the new 3.0 which we like even better - all 24 of them!
It is recommended that you purchase 36. We did 24 bc thats all we had the $ for, but i did have to do laundry nearly every day too. Also, we got the pocket diapers bc I found the AIO didn't hold up as well AND they took WAYYYYY too long to dry. With the pockets, I would wash them all together, then actually took to hanging them out separately to dry on a sweater rack as I found it naturally bleached the dipes and left them smelling amazing, whereas the dryer left them smelling like a latrine....
BG's also come in hemp (thirties!), unbleached cotton/hemp, bamboo which is WAY thirstier than cotton! As far as detergent, I ordered Allen's Naturally from Amazon.com after trying several other things. We live in BFE KY and there is no where around here to buy anything natural. (we acutally have city regulations AGAINST green stuff - no gray water sys, no solar panels, no....well....nvrmd) We tried Bac Out but it didn't work AND gave my DD a HORRIBLE rash. Also, you'll want to strip your diapers in the wash with 2 TBS of original Dawn when they stop absorbing so well - typically that's about 1x2-3mos. We have the hardest water in the world (filtered through bedrocks of limestone) so we had to do it every 3-4 wks.
Also, I found that I hated the tissue liners. I'd rather wash the dipes out in the toilet. And they doo make a sprayer you can attach to your toilet for that purpose. But again, thats subjective. I'd recommend starting with a small pack of those instead of the sam's-size economy box.
Have you tried Diaperpin.com? Nikki's diapers? there are a HOST of CD sites out there. Diaperswappers is a board where you can buy/trade/sell CD. Diaperpin is awesome bc it has ALL the info on CD you could ever want, as well as detergents, accessories, etc. Better yet, it provides REVIEWS.
We spent $300/mo on the first child's dipes. I spent that on one set of dipes for the second and never bought more - imagine how much we saved ea mo! And water bill only went up by about $15/mo.
btw - you can't use diaper rash cream, etc with disposables - it ruins them. We never had a problem with that tho. the only time we needed to use diaper rash cream was when someone mistakenly put a disposable on her.
you will love CD if you try them!! well....we did..... :)