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There are a TON of cloth diaper possibilities. There are prefolds with covers, Fitteds with covers, AIO (all in ones), and pocket diapers.
Washing is similar for all types. Load diapers into washer (if using a wetbag its easy to just dump them in & throw in the bag w/o having to touch the diapers). Once in the washer here is my method of washing: 1 cold rinse cycle, 1 hot wash hot rinse cycle with detergent, and 1 hot or warm rinse with approx 1 cup of vinegar added.
The vinegar is added to help them smell fresh and to help soften them since you can't use fabric softener on the diapers.
After they are washed you can either dry them in the dryer or on the clothes line. I found when I hung them on the clothes line that they needed a few minutes of "fluff" time in the dryer to make them a bit softer.
As for brands to consider... a lot of it depends on what style diaper you choose to go with, and what size baby you have. My babies were both very small at birth (5 lb 3 oz baby born full term but had interuterine growth retardation from complications followed by a less than 2 lb baby born at 25 weeks due to different complications). With small babies you really have to make sure that you stay away from "one size fits all" styles. Every single one I tried for my girls just didn't fit b/c they were small. For really large babies they often don't work well either because they fit great early on but they won't work for the entire time in diapers unless you potty train very early.
I prefer going with diapers that have multiple sizes. A set of diapers that has 3 to 4 sizes seems ideal to me. With diapers such as Kissaluvs you can either use all 3 sizes or since the sizes overlap a bit you can use sizes 0 & 1 for small babies and sizes 1 & 2 for larger babies. With my DD#1 she would have only needed sizes 0 & 1 but we had a few tragedies happen while she was potty training so, we eventually moved into the size 2's (we used all 3 sizes in the end).
Prefolds with covers are the cheapest for most mamas. There are multiple sizes to provide a good fit, and you can use great covers like Bummis or Prorap with the prefolds. You can even get your prefolds in co ops to save even more money.
Fitteds with covers are inexpensive but you don't need to think of folding or figuring out pins or snappis. They have either velcro (aplix) or snap closures. I prefer snaps since I don't like the velcro sticking together when I wash the diapers (even with the wash tabs I still ended up with diaper chains). Snaps are also great for when babies try to undress themselves since snaps are harder for their little fingers to do.
For both prefolds and fitteds you need less covers than diapers since the covers often are not wet and can be reused. If they are wet you can lay them over the end of your changing table and they will be ready for a use later on in the day.
AIO's are an all in one style diaper. You put it on the same way you would a disposeable diaper. They are a 1 time use diaper (meaning you have to wash it before its next use). Some AIO's come with varying features for baby's comfort or quick drying time.
Pockets are a style that someone else should tell you about. I am unskilled with pocket diapers and though most mammas really like them... I don't. The few pockets I had were hard to stuff (and I have small hands). I also had trouble cleaning them ~ I think I was using them incorrectly which is why someone more skilled with pockets should explain them to you.
As for where to get your cloth diapers? Myself and MANY other WAHM's make diapers and when you purchase from a WAHM you help her stay home with her children, you often get more personalized service (in helping you choose, then later use your cloth diapers). WAHM's also have really cool designs since they make a variety of diapers. Many offer dresses with matching diapers or diaper covers, and they often have all the accessories that make cloth diapering easier such as wetbags.
Wetbags are bags that you use to line your diaper pail, or you can also get smaller travel sized ones for your diaper bag so when you go out if you have a dirty diaper you can slip it into a wetbag descretly without worrying about it leaking or smelling up your diaper bag. On outings I usually take 2 travel wetbags with clean diapers in them and when I change the diaper(s) I take out the clean one to put on the baby & put the dirty one into the wetbag. For home use, wetbags lining the diaper pail make it easy for you to put your diapers in the wash w/o touching them The wetbags are washable and just get thrown in the washer after the diapers are dumped in. (flip bag upside down & shake diapers into washer).
If you want more information or want to see some pics of the diapers I make you can email me at ____@____.com
Hope that info helps!