Cheating - Atlanta,GA

If you have to suspect, I'd say that's the biggest sign.

Secretive.
Hiding phones and closing e-mails when you walk into the room.
Trying to change their appearance with no reason....losing weight/changing hair/dying hair - this MIGHT be for a man who just lost his job and he's trying to look younger.
Pulling cash out of the bank instead of using a credit or debit card and not showing receipts for the purchases.
Going outside to talk on the phone.
Going places he typically doesn't go
listening to music he normally doesn't listen to (my ex all of sudden was interested in Country music and went to a country music dance - his idea of music is Iron Maiden, Queensryche, etc.)
I could go on and on.

Ask the question. Be prepared to hear an answer you do not want to hear.

Just caught my husband. Big signs were he grew out his hair. Started getting it styled. Working out. Leaving for long periods of time. Withdrawn from relationship, not wanting to help. Check cell phone or bill. My husbands text doubled from 500 a month to 1000 a month. Same with talk minutes.
Good luck i hope your situation is better then mine.

Acting different: dressing different, saying unusual things, doing things differently sexually, tending more to appearance, being somewhere where you can't reach him. Making up any stupid story that is out of the ordinary.

With my ex - he actually came home smelling of perfume one time. How cliche! And I didn't really believe his stupid explanation (a woman sprayed it on him in a department store), but I was so involved with my new baby I didn't really pay attention. He also went to Wash., D.C. for three days to tend to his mother's house, but I was unable to contact him while he was there.

Sneakiness, caught lying, away at long hours of the day or night. Have female friends they talk to alot. Hides his phone, and different accounts. Vagueness about where he has been, distance from each other, accusing you of being the one cheating, insecurity etc. The list can go on and on. I hope that whatever your situation is, that it works out for the best. Just remember to stand up for yourself and be firm.

Excuses 4 lateness, leaves early to work,,ruffled clothes/hair Hang up phone calls, paycheck gone already, Wont look you straight in the eye, Nervous-hands in pocket then out,..Turns accusation around on you. Smells like perfume,,,Scratches down his back, Need I say more? Trust you womanly instincts.. we are usually right!

Leaving the room when they receive a call, lots of calls, hiding things and being more protective with their things (even when it's a piece of junk mail, they will bite your head off for opening it), less patience with you, criticism of you over small things, avoidance and/or minimal participation in family events (they are like on the sidelines), defensiveness. I hope you are okay.

Bug nailed this one, if you are asking the question he probably is. People's gut feelings are far more reliable than most give them credit for.

I don't think any other advice given so far is correct because every man is different. Yeah we can all look back at our cheating exes and give the checklist that hindsight gives us but going into it only our guts were saying something is wrong.

Even if a guy isn't cheating and your gut tells you he is chances are there is still something wrong with the relationship that needs to addressed. Most of the time that thing leads to a full out break down of the relationship.

Anyway they only common thread I heard from every woman I have spoken with who had a cheating partner is I knew he was but I couldn't put my finger on it, their gut told them.

oh dear, it is better if you give us the signs, there are so many.
my ex boyfriend was cheating on me and some major signs were:
not answering when I called, calling back later
always being busy and not being around as much as before
getting angry at me when I was messing up his plans to be with "her"
testy and angry all the time
not wanting sex as much
late coming home from work
coming home late at night drunk
very mean to me

let us know what is going on, maybe we can help
check phone for texts and odd numbers, email, etc personally I would have my boyfriend followed and he was ALWAYS cheating. never where he said he was going to be. I was dumb and accepted his crying apologies to never do it again.............everytime. thank GOD I got away and married a good man. hope you are ok

Late night calls or texts, hiding his cell phone (like taking it with him even to the bathroom), working late more than usual, might talk alot about a new friend or co-worker that is female, resistance to ending said friendship if asked.

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Signs of cheating:

he's not bonding with you, spending very little time with you.

He's distant.

Less kissing less holding you.

Intimate conversations with her, depending on her for comfort and advice going to her for advice about his relationship or marriage iwth you.

Phone conversations he tries to keep private from you.

He's fixing his looks and doing thing different. He may or may not be trying to impress her.

He could be losing weight trying to for him and you or for her.

He's taking new interests she's into.

Going out earlier or later or late or coming home later from work. You don't know where he is.

Stories don't add up.

He's keeping things from you.

comming home late at night, turning his phone off, getting deffensive if you ask to see his phone, smelling another perfume on him, cant keep eye contact when talking to you, leaves for longer than work, using the excuse of working overtime.