K.R.
A. - Everyone's advice is so wonderful. I have 3 children (almost 2,3 &4). Isn't this a tiring season of our lives? It is so important to be consistent, no matter what your approach is. My 2 oldest are girls, & our son wants to do everything that his sisters are doing - which creates lots of tension.
Just this past week we've been working on reciting the Fruits of the Spirit. Galatians 5:22-23 "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control."
Throughout the day - especially when they are being good - we point out to them which fruit of the Spirit they are having & what a positive effect it's having on the family. We've found that the kids respond better when we focus on the good things they're doing instead of always nagging, correcting & disciplining. As difficult as it is, we strive to have"special time" with each child at least once a day - one on one time - reading stories, building with blocks, coloring.... Then, we also plan an extended "special time" as often as possible, where ONE parent spends several hours with ONE child, giving that munchkin undivided attention from mom or dad.
Good luck! Feel free to email me if you need to talk about having little ones so close together in age. There are 32 months between my oldest & youngest...keep your chin up & enjoy the precious moments of each day.
In His Healing Arms,
Kim