Bachelor Party

I don't think you're being silly, but I wouldn't assume either. I would find out if other young adults have been invited and if they THOUGHT about the alcohol issue where the kids were concerned. Have the conversation, and then make the decision from there.

Edit-not all bachelor parties are "Bachelor parties" - my hubby and his friends all played multiplayer video games for his bachelor party; another of his friends was taken to Dave and Busters, so it's possible this is more a "guys bonding" than the traditional "skanky" bachelor party.

I would definitely let him go. It's an amazing opportunity. He'll have a great time, and most importantly, he'll be with his father and other family members.

Dear M.-

I would be inclined to let you son go...it will be quite a memory for him!

A few years ago I went to a baseball game...and the drinking was rampant (and in this case, there was NO bachelor party involved...lol). Maybe his going will 'encourage' some moderation with the other guests?

Best Luck!
michele/cat

Honest opinion... being a little silly. He has the chance to do something really cool and have a blast! I would allow him to attend, but would have a conversation with your husband about being aware of what is going on around him and making sure that your son is supervised and safe.

Let him go- he will be the coolest kid in school on Monday and you will be the coolest mom too! How often does that get to happen?

I would suggest, however, that he has a ride home before the strippers arrive. Just a thought!

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I wouldn't let him go. It's a bachelor party afterall and the conversation and drinking will probalby be inapproriate for his age.

If they went to the game they would be around drinking too. Are there going to be a designated drivers? If so, that person can be the one in charge of the teens as well. Your husband can be a responsible father and behave too.

I would definitely let him go. Not only would he probably be very resentful of you if you keep him home, this would be an awesome bonding experience for him and the male members of the family. He's 15, which means that it won't be too long before he has to face alcohol-related peer pressure (if he hasn't already) It's better for him to be around responsible adults instead of a bunch of teenagers!

I think you should let him go. Just keep him away from the after parties. :)

And make sure they both have a safe ride home - even if you have to provide it.

You have a right to be concerned!!!!!!! Plus if there was heavy drinking someone might not have good judgement and allow your son to drink and party with them. I would certainly find out what is supposed to take place prior to agreeing for him to go with your hubby.

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It depends on your son. If he is responsible and can understand that drinking is a privilege for people age 21 and older, then let him go:) I'm sure if things got really out of hand, your husband would know when to leave.

What does your husband think? I would rely heavily on his opinion. Plus, he'll be there with your son, and therefore responsible to keep an eye on him, remove him from the situation if things get crazy.

I think the most important question you need to answer when making this decision is: "Is my husband going to be able to keep himself under control, and keep my son safe" - also - who is going to be driving??

If you trust your husband and he is capable of limiting his intake in order to be able to drive home safely if needed, and keep your son safe, then you let your kid go!! What a great experience that would be for him.

usually box comes with ticket so why you paying again what company owns box. If they go i would let son go and explain about the beer before hand also will hubby be drinking too another issue to discuss

Definitely follow your instinct as a mom. You know your nephew - your son should definitely not be put in a situation which you are pretty sure is going to be inappropriate.

M.,
Your husband would be going with your son so I would say YES LET YOUR SON GO. You are right this is a once in a lifetime thing and something he will remember for ever. If it will make you feel better talk to your husband about your concerns and tell him to be the responsible adult and watch the drinking. The other thing you can do is if your son has a cell phone have him call you if he feels the drinking is getting out of hand and he needs a ride home. I too have a 15 year old son and we are HUGE Yankees fans (my 12 year old is named after Jeter and our dog is named after Reggie Jackson) and that is how I would handle my son going. If you don't let him go he is going to resent you forever, plus you can't shelter him forever, he is in high school now and is going to be exposed, if he hasn't already, to alcohol, smoking, and unfortunately drugs too. You have taught your son right from wrong and now he is to the age where he has the opportunity to show you he can handle being exposed to possible drinking. Hope this helps.

I'd say that if your husband is responsible and they have a safe ride home, then go for it. It's a once in a lifetime experience. I'm sure your son realizes that people sometimes drink.

I wouldn't let him go.
Men at a bachelor party almost never act in a well behaved manner.
Your husband can enjoy the luxury box and maybe one day your son can be fortunate enough to have another chance at a luxury box but he is only 15 and heavens knows what could actually transpire at a bachelor party: stripper, inappropriate behavior/attitude/talk etc.