T.H.
We always go for the "traditional" gift for that year. This year was iron and we really needed a new knife set so we adjusted a bit and got ourselves a nice steel knife set. I mean iron is kind of hard! :) For leather I got him a leather picture frame for his office with a pic of the kids and he got me some shoes. We don't do a ton and the traditional gift makes it kind of fun, funky, and fairly inexpensive. Although for wood, we did decide to go to Florida and give the whole family wood in the shape of palm trees! I think ultimately just being together would be nice and if you can swing an overnight without kids, even at home, go for it!