A.O.
The first few days will be the hardest, and usually harder for the mom than the kids. If it is possible, could you go to the house before you start working and just let your boys play while you sit and visit with the caregiver? If not, let them each pick something special to bring along with them...a sleeping buddy, a favorite book etc. Another helpful tool, I know a lot of daycares use is to have a little photo album with pictures of mommy, daddy, brother, sister, grandma, grandpa, etc that the child can look through. I guess it kind of takes their mind off the fact that you are not right there with them. You can use a real photo album, or even better just laminate some pictures and put together a home made photo album.