T.M.
My parents just filed for divorce on April 6th. (i am 34) I am so glad that you posted this. I was starting to think i was crazy. I did not realize how it was going to effect the whole family. You would think it would be easier as adult children. My parents are in the stage of bashing each other to everyone. It is very hard to re direct them. I am hoping that it gets easier. I look forward to reading the advice that you get. It is good to know that we are not alone. My poor husband questions our marriage now. I have to reassure him that we are not my parents. We already have a better marriage than they ever had.....sadly....