C.L.
S. ~ I was this young girl a couple years ago...not by age, but in her position. I knew my birth father's name as well as his sister's and looked for them on the internet many times. Then 2 years ago I found her name on the classmates.com website and made contact. I was so scared, but excited at the same time. She emailed back for more information, and BAM - a whole new family to be excited about. My birth father had passed away years ago from cancer, but I was so happy to have made contact with his family and now I have a 2 "new" aunts, an uncle and many cousins. I was also very appreciative to get family medical history that I never had including knowing the type of cancer my father had died from - all very important information. I keep in close contact with my aunt now and we're both happy to have each other. So, even if your brother isn't ready for this new relationship, you should give it a try. Don't push your brother into anything, he'll come around on his own.