9 Month Old Throwing Fits

100% normal separation anxiety that manifests around this age.

Keep taking little 'mini-trips' out of the room, but loudly announce "Mommy will be right back". And then go to the bathroom, go get yourself a drink, take a load of laundry upstairs, whatever. And then come back and reassure her: "See, mommy came right back! Here I am!" Do this often and pretty soon, although she will miss you, she will learn that you're not abandoning her forever and that yes, you do come back.

First post is great! Also, you could start some peek-a-boo games or hide-seek play (hide behind the couch, pop out, go back, pop out again.) At this age, she is learning that mom goes away, but she comes back. Then, she forgets. So, these games help reinforce that fact to her. Also, once she starts to move on her own, this settles a bit, since she is then able to crawl after the object of her affection- YOU!

Enjoy your beautiful baby!

B.,

Hi! This is completely normal! I have nine month old twin boys, and one experiences the separation anxiety. There have been good ideas already shared, and remember that this will pass with time. Good luck!

My daughter has gone in and out of this stage since she got a cold at 7 or 8 months. Lately she has had screaming fits and she wants nothing to do with daddy. I think she is getting those first molars and she has had a slight cold. Can't wait till this one is over. The other posters have great ideas though. Playing games and reminding her that you are returning can help.