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She may be dehydrated (makes pee more acidic) or she may not be wiping well during the day so she's a bit raw around the edges, both of which would be worse at the end of the day. I've found my daughter get "hot" pee (that's what she calls it) when she stays wet, like from the pool or beach, for too long. Sounds like it's turned into a power struggle! What if you teach her how to change her jammies and remove a waterproof cover from the bed on her own if she wets it, then there is no getting mommy up at night. I know it sounds crazy, but I had a friend who did just that. Accidents weren't so much fun when they were work!!!