Let me state, you know your daughter better than me. What I am saying is OUR child rarely made a request like this of us. When she did of course I shared my needs and wants , but told her I would honor her request..
She knew that I would always honor her request. I also would have felt terrible if she found out after not doing well, because maybe I would have had something to do with it (that is how I worry) .
I also always asked if it was ok for me to chaperone her field trips before I volunteered or after I was requested.
I know she would not have been pleased if she found out through the grapevine after all of the discussions and her decision had been made I had gone ahead and gone anyway..
Our daughter just would not be happy with that. We call her "Grandma", because she knows what she wants and we totally honor that. She also does not have regrets about her decisions later. I give her a lot of credit for that and it is a gift she has taught me. She also taught me how to keep a secret. Our daughter can and will keep a secret (unless it is dangerous) forever. She has high standards and I want to live up to them.
ALWAYS follow your own heart and brain.. It will always be your best guide. Then no regrets! Hope she did well! I am anxious to hear the outcome!
No way. Our daughter would have had a fit and never trust me again.
We do not mess with a request like that from our daughter.
I would though send my camera or video camera so someone could capture photos for me.