I saw on here that people can post both positive and negative experiences at local stores... I'm not one for 'badmouthing,' but I had a BAD experience (with another pregnant girlfriend) at a local boutique last week. Can't seem to shake it, and it could be pertinent to mothers planning on shopping there. Should I do it, or just stay focused on the positive and reward local shop owners with positive feedback? Also, it is a fairly new shop and I can't find the store information to contact the business owner directly. I would welcome any and all feedback. Thank you :)
Thanks to all of the ladies that offered suggestions and personal messages. I have decided to deal with this situation by writing about it in my personal blog. If you would like more information or wish to know more details about the experience, I can try to email it directly to you or you can try to view my MySpace blog. I have it set to "private," but if you mention that you found me on Mommasource, I will most likely add you as a friend.
I still feel awkward about posting negative feedback for all the world to see, but I gave this some reflection and decided that the way I would like this resolved would be to hear from the shop owner. Or, I would like to put this behind me by writing about the experience ONLY for people that really wish to read it. UPDATE 3/12/08: I have located a store address, and I will be mailing the owner a copy of my letter.
Also, in writing about the experience this way, it allowed me to give positive feedback about two local stores that are independently owned and operated WELL. Kudos to those places :)
Best shopping wishes to all,
J.
Hmmm....well if it's something that could really keep someone from having this experience, or if it's something you think could happen again, I say let fly.
If your experience was certainly uncalled for and was not instigated by any actions that you brought on then I would call them out on it! I live in the Col. area and would definitely not shop somewhere that is not willing to be courteous and kind to their consumer. Maybe this outlet will help you feel better, too and bring closure to your bad shopping experience.
Hey, J. K. I still have not quite hit the 30 year mark, but on my path to coming of age, i learned a few things. In a situation like this, confront the people responsible for your discomfort first - do whatever it takes to make them know you were thoroughly unsatisfied. It is part of growing a business to screw up, and b/c of you, they may make neccessary changes to better their business. Then definately log on to this site and tell us every juicy detail!!
I think if it is something that could save other women grief then post it. It is hard enough being pregnant without going to an establishment where they will make you feel bad.
So nice of you not wanting to trash someone. Also, so rude of them to treat you and your pregnant friend poorly. You are entitled to your opinion, and also a member of this group, and we are willing to listen to what you have to say. You be the judge, but I would be inclined to say NO THANKS to entrepreneurs, and their employess who think that the way to get ahead is being nasty to their target market. That is everyone on this site. Strong women stick up for themselves, even stronger women stick up for someone else.
I'm just as nosy as everybody else.
I say post it
