*Adding this: Just ignore the rude comments from others about your nursing. I mean, that is really 'personal' and private.
All my friends (who's kids were the same age as mine) were also still nursing and going the self-weaning route, too.
My Husband, was actually "proud" of me that I let my kids self-wean, and he'd actually 'brag' about it to all his friends.
- at a certain age though, I did not nurse my kids, in public etc. And it really is nobody's business, what I did with my kids. Nursing still or not.
I breastfed both my kids and let them self-wean.
My daughter self-weaned at about 2.5 years old.
(Many of my friends, also did this).
My son, self-weaned at about 1 years old.
Each kid being different.
I still had milk.
Even after weaning, it does take time for the milk to completely dry up.
I nursed on-demand. But when older, a child (in my kids' cases) they naturally are at breast less and less. Until they just stop.
My kids, of course, since 6 months old, were on solids. Solids for the 1st year, is not a replacement for nursings/breastmilk.