S.H.
**Edit: If you do use what we contribute to you.... does a 'release form' have to be given out... so that you can therefore use/quote what we say and contribute?
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Kids, really need to be taught how to cope with frustration.
that is what parents... have the most difficulty with, which then becomes a "problem" for the child...because a young child and baby simply does NOT have inherent "ability" to deal with 'frustration' nor coping skills to navigate through it.
Some adults, don't even have that ability. They probably were never taught or were just 'scolded' or punished for feeling 'frustrated'... and babies and children, per their age-set... simply do not have emotions fully developed yet... so therefore, we cannot 'expect' a kid to just 'behave' and handle their emotions and frustrations like a Rocket Scientist.
To me, this is key.
A child, needs to learn 'how'... to manage AND how to articulate their frustrations and then be ALLOWED to have those feelings. Adults have those feelings... but we are 'allowed' to... but kids, are often NOT allowed to have any emotions, except a smile.
all the best,
Susan