Wow! I don't even know where to begin with this. I suppose I will start with sports. First, any form of athletics is HEALTHY. Americans are obese and I fully support our kids getting exercise. Anything after school is completely optional so if you have no interest, no need to participate. Second, a little competition is great for the soul. What's wrong with striving to be better, stronger, more agile? Sportsmanship is a wonderful thing to teach children. They need to learn how to be gracious winners or even more important, gracious losers. You can't win all of the time and playing a sport sure teaches that life lesson. Sports also teach kids how to get along as a team, which will help in a future career where you have to work with others. Colleges place the importance on extracurricular activities because they want a well rounded student, knowing that they are far more likely to succeed. As far as pep rallies go, what is wrong with having a little pride in your school?
I happen to like sports as you can probably tell. I am not fanatic about it and rarely discuss it. Obviously there is something wrong when people obsess over it, but one could argue the same about religion as well. In fact, my atheist husband would argue that religion is the root of all evil. He is a classical studies major, meaning he has studied Greeks, Romans and history in general. He has traveled to over 30 countries and has lived in 4 different ones including Saudi Arabia. Too many wars throughout history are over religion. So much blood is shed because people are controlling and close-minded.
My atheist husband is not a soulless being. He is one of the kindest people I know. He is one who will save any stray dog and go to great lengths to find their owner. He is a vegetarian for animal rights reasons. He donates blood regularly. He also donates money to those in need whether it is for children or cancer. He is good human being because he wants to be, not because he wants to go to Heaven. With that said, I am not an atheist, but I am not a religious fanatic either. I am a deeply spiritual person that believes in prayer and the power of thought. If a school dared to tell my children how/when/what/where to pray I would be livid. I would pull my kids so fast from that school. I want to be the one to educate my children about prayer, it should NEVER come from the school. My husband and I have had many conversations about how to raise our kids regarding religion. We are completely on the same page and no one has the right to invade on something so private and personal.
If you are suggesting that the schools provide non-biased information about all religions, well most of them do that. I learned about many different religions, cultures and governments in history class. I am all for my children understanding that there are many religions out there and having them research what they are all about. Learning and praying are two very different concepts.
There is good reason church and state are separate. Shall we change this country to be run as a dictatorship? I thought Christians were not supposed to be judgemental? Aren't they supposed to be tolerant and accepting? That means allowing others to enjoy sports, even if you don't. That also means allowing those the freedom to practice religion the way they want, on their own time. Isn't going to church or having bible study enough for you? Why are you so obsessed that you need it to be a part of school too?
As far as your comment: "I'd rather have my kids exposed to religions that I don't know about than to have them being told that we don't need to believe in anything." I can not even fathom a school actually telling children we don't need to believe in anything. I'm pretty sure that has lawsuit written all over it.
We all have our opinions, it sure makes this world unique. I just don't think you need to force your views on others. My whole family chooses to be vegetarians. I would never dream of campaigning for schools to remove meat from the menu, nor would I ever tell you that you should embrace that lifestyle too. I feel VERY strongly about my vegetarian view, but I do completely accept that you might love meat and I am 100% ok with that. So, you can LOVE your religion with all of your heart, but please leave others alone. To each his own. Live and let live.