You are smart to see what might be available to you, and by living very frugally you might be able to just go to school and not try to work at the same time. Of course you are eligable for unemployment, and WIC which is like food stamps.( only good for food, but that will feed you!). Also, as a single mother you will probably be eligable for alot of financial aid, especially FREE grant money! Nursing school is a great idea. nursing is a good solid career and you can make a decent amount of money and still be available for your child. Arapahoe community college has a program and a child care center on campus! But you need pre-recs, and they are hard, I believe the whole program is hard but it is worth it! They have changed the admittance policy from wait list to competitive, so if you can get striaght A's and with your work experience it will help you alot. As far as the father get a support order going now, the DA will do it all for you for free, even if he does not pay a dime once the order is established it will be active and accumulate over time, you will be able to garnish wages( and the DA will do that for you) or if he ever owns property you will get proceeds. Don't let this person off the hook, that is not ok. ( but don't spend all of your time and energy on it either!). I really don't believe in borrowing money but you may be able to get some student loans, that would be your very last choice, but you are not going to be able to work and go to nursing school, you will never see your child! So with pre-recs and school you can do it in three years. Metro has an accelrated program that takes one year but I hear it is really intense( but you do get a bachelors degree!) Good luck!