What Gets Your Man Going?

Updated on August 26, 2010
L.P. asks from Uniontown, PA
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Just a fun question, sharing "secrets" or "tricks of the trade," if you will... ;)

We all know that generally speaking, it doesn't take much to get men going...

But what little (or big) things do you to get your man going? To peak his interest?

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L.C.

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I swear, the first thought that popped into my head was, "laying down".

It's crazy, but it's true. It takes practically nothing. It's great how men are so easy.

The little things: touching him. He's super ticklish so it can be a gentle swipe across his abs. But if I massage his shoulders, or rub his back. Rubbing his head - he shaves his head. Just loving touches.

The odd things: making dinner. If I make a dinner he likes. Doing thoughtful little things for him, things I know he likes that make him feel taken care of like laying out clothes for him for when he comes home from work. He responds to being taken care of like I kissed him on the neck.

Wow, he really is so easy. Lucky me! =)

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D.K.

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Any time I move it seems to turn my husband on! lol!

Truly, he's always on a slow boil so anything I do to let him know that I'm thinking about him too will do it.

I call him at work and thank him for "last night"
I wink at him
I raise an eyebrow at him
I run my finger along his shoulders and I'm passing by
I pinch his butt

Any of it works, but my hubby's just that kind of guy. I swear he donated some of his blood to science and they reverse engineered Viagra out of it!! lol!

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J.T.

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High Heels - especially with a short skirt!

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N.L.

answers from Los Angeles on

Walking by him in the nude. Never fails!

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S.S.

answers from Los Angeles on

When he's sitting on the couch watching TV, if I feel lonely I'll straddle him and then he'll usually pick me up and take me to the bedroom. haha he likes to feel like a caveman ;p

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M.R.

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Two little shakes of my eyebrows. That, and just waking up in the morning...

M.

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D.F.

answers from Boston on

When he watches me eat a ice cream! hahhaha we're in the freezer a lot!!!

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C.M.

answers from Johnson City on

Like someone else said, the flirting beforehand and showing him that I want him too, not just always the man wanting the woman.

Planning it. Before you say it takes the spontaneity out of it, it gives us something to think about and look forward to.

Mixing it up, even a little bit. Lingerie, candles, a new perfume, etc. Just something a little different can make a world of difference.

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D.S.

answers from Tulsa on

bite his neck. kiss his ear. scratch his back and run your finger down his spine. I am interested in seeing what kind of answers you get.

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T.K.

answers from Dallas on

It's all in the eye contact. Raise the eyebrow, a little knowing smile and he is racing me to the bedroom. I also have to be careful with kissing. ANY kiss is a sexual kiss and gets his "hopes" up.

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L.D.

answers from Las Vegas on

It's all the sexual innuendo that goes on way before we hit the bedroom. He's very receptive to me flirting with him.

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A.G.

answers from Houston on

Just about anything, but playing dress up a big favorite.

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A.W.

answers from Kalamazoo on

So funny! God forbid I drop something and have to bend over - that's it! One of his old white hanes Tshirts with no bra works everytime - no need for fancy nighties.

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S.G.

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my husband and i fight (playfully) over who will do the hot and sweaty chores because we both want to do them....but at the same time, he loves watching me work and i LOVE watching him get all hot and sweaty usually we'll wind up push mowing the lawn side by side, or both of us will be weed eating together (we have 1 mower and 1 weedeater) or if we're mowing his dad's on a riding mower, we'll ride it together...love it
random date night other than dinner and a movie (dinner-and sitting at the lake side watching the stars-really nice)

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