What Does Your Husband Think of.......(Very TMI)

Against the actual device??? Afraid of a little competition??? I'm not married but grew up knowing my parents had them. Now that's TMI!

tehehe, well yes we talk about it and are interested in toys, however we are both too embarrassed to actually BUY anything!

(Unless his beard trimmer counts!)

:)

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My husband is good, giving, and game for sex toys.

My husband and I are both for whatever keeps the marriage and intimacy from growing stale. As long as it's between he and I and our "sex toy" isn't a blonde named "Bambi" then it's all good. If it works for both of us and is fun, great. If it doesn't, well then no to something else.

Get yourself a toy, use it when he's not home or is otherwise unavailable, and don't mention it to him.

Oh Molly, you knew I would answer this one, lol. We have a couple of them. Not frequently used, depends on the mood....

We are both for toys. We used to go 'shopping' every year at this place in VA just off of 95 and buy something new. Our biggest purchase from that location was a Swing!! I laughed so hard the first time I thought I was going to pee everywhere....I couldn't stop...but it is pretty fun to do something different. We have all kinds of toys that vibrate for both of us but nothing too crazy. We tend to steer clear of the S & M stuff (gotta draw the line somewhere!) Certainly, this is not a regular thing, merely special occassions (i.e. baby is down for the night and we aren't too tired to put ona production ourselves!). Hahaha! What a fun question, thanks Molly!

Very ODD question when you aren't asking for any particular reason other than curiosity.
--I know sorry!! I just thought that after I posted it! LOL! Sorry, think I'm PMS-y today.
Anyway, no problem with the question at all. I don't think things are too personal when talking amongst women. Just thought that when I read it--why ask if you don't have a particular reason. But maybe you DO have a reason why you're curious so I shouldn't have said that. I'm sorry...
Not sure if my husband is for or against them actually. We've never actually discussed it. We don't have any, but I am pretty sure he'd be for it if I suggested getting some. LOL!

Yep, we've got them. Hubby bought them, not me. Don't use them very often, though. They kinda end up desensitizing me after a little use, know what I mean? Actually, I was once watching HBO's Weeds and Alanis Morrisette was Andy's girlfriend on the show for a little while. When they first got together she apologized because she hadn't been with a man so long and had been using her toys, which totally desensitized her. I laughed and thought, ok, so it's NOT just me! ;)

You don't need a toy, god gave u hands use em :)
Btw, my husband is ok with whatever antics I cook up in the bedroom!

well, I'm not able to to "finish" during sex, so we use them every time. Sometimes after, and sometimes during. Your husband needs to lighten up!

I LOVE my "pink panther"!!!! :D

My husband bought it for me and it's used both with him and without him. As someone else already wrote, I can't "finish" without it. I would never dream of giving it up! That stInks that your husband is so against any kind of toy.

We both love them and we have a nice little supply.

Too bad he is so against it, there is nothing wrong with having toys.

We like spicing it up and it is not freaky.... sometimes it is just fun to incorporate them into play!

The stores around here a very nice, not a trashy dirty place... they are in the strip malls.. Sara's Secret is a favorite!

LOL my husband has an arsenal of them and has given me a few that I like to use every now and again but really it's his stash and I sometimes give him the green light to use some. The contents of his toy box would shock most people! I finally last year got him to throw out a suitcase full of toys from prior partners. Don't know why he still had them, it's not like I would ever use something that someone else had touched, kwim? This stupid bag moved from his apartment to our first house and second house. He was always afraid to toss it in the trash and have someone find it LOL so we waited until we had a dumpster after a flood and just tossed the whole bag (which is too bad because it was a rather nice suitcase).

I think your husband needs to understand that a woman's body is not built like a man's--we can have multiple orgasms. So those toys can get you warmed up for him, not replace him. Good Vibrations is a reputable store/catalog/website with good customer service. I've had various toys since college, before my husband was around and I definitely recommend it.

We have used them together a couple of time, but he seems confussed when using them lol.

I use it on a regular basis. My husband has no problem with it and knows how much its used.

With us on oppisite shifts most of the time during the week is out of the question... well sometimes weekends are also if I work the night shift. While he only uses me (he isn't comfortable doing it to himself) and waits until he can have me... well Im not that patient and one way or another its atleast every other day. There is NO way I could hold out for 1-2 weeks until our schedule matches and he is awake when I get home. or if one of us hasn't fallen asleep on my day off waiting while the other puts the kids to bed. In the hour we do have together a day, we spend it as a family.. no sneaking off alone.

I bought my husband a toy for him when we were going to be apart for a few months.. We ended up buying a toy for me and we use them together or apart.. whatever floats your boat as a married couple.. Can be fun if you open yourself to it.. Like Lisa said, anything spice it up from time to time as long as we are faithful and open with eachother..

We have them- he bought them and we use them! I love the X-rated stocking. I am totally doing that this year! Order one and have fun- he needs to lighten up. It doesnt take the place of your man. it adds some fun!

My husband and i have a game we play. Every couple of months we go separately to the naughty shop..or online and order something fun to do or wear. The other one HAS to do it. We made that a rule because we are not sick and know the other one is not going to come up with some crazy stuff to do. There is nothing wrong with toys..........sometimes. The problem is some people rely on them.

I had my "toy" before my husband came along. He learned to love it. And he doesn't mind it at all. This is gross and TMI, but I have my original toy, the only one I have ever had, for 12 years!! It has never died, (obviously a battery change here and there) but it is running as good as it did the day I bought it at a party! lol I am certain there are many better models 12 years later, but I like mine.

What a shame for you that he isn't willing to try anything new. Really, what he's telling you by taking this stance is that at whatever age you currently are, you've done & tried everything you're ever going to because of his unwillingness to branch out. You may both be very happy with what you've got for a year, or 2, or 10, but eventually one (or likely both) of you is going to get bored. If nothing else in life, sex should always be fun & pleasant.

We have a variety of them :) we don't use them often, but we do have fun when we get them out!
It's fun to go to the novelty stores together and pick stuff out. I don't get embarrassed, but he sometimes does.
One year for Christmas I gave him an x-rated stocking ~ that was fun!!!!

He is ALL for them, as am I. Makes things just a little more fun and interesting. :) Anything to keep things spicy and creative.

My husband is open but we both in agreement with nothing that can duplicate one of our roles or functions.

We actually have things like dice or games or body paints or stuff like that.

ok, I dont thinks its ODD!! My husband is not really for that extra stuff. But he does like it when I dress up and we have used, here is the TMI, those little things you put on him that vibrate and are good for both of us!

You can always take care of yourself without a toy.....

My husband doesn't care, we have some but they've been in a box for quite some time. Not really something I want to try to explain to my 9 & 10 year old kids! LOL

Sorry your hubby turned you down, that is sssooo frustrating!

Molly, you crack me up...just so you know, you can buy a "massager" at Walgreens and keep it under the mattress...LOLOLOL!!! Good luck!

My husband doesn't have any toys for himself and doesn't want any but he doesn't care if I use them/have them. Honestly, I only have one (assuming flavored lube doesn't count) and it rarely gets used. How boring I am.

A little too freaky for our taste lol.

I never had one and have never had the need for one, I even never got proposed to buy/use one by boyfriends/husband. I am the only one agreeing with your husband apparently!! Yes, I would feel extreeeeemely uncomfortable if my mate would ask me to get one, not to mention feeling like I am not enough for him. Nope, for me it would not be a good thing. Just a different opinion.

I had sex toys before my husband... and I have them now. Lucky for HIM he's quite ok about that.

My husband is also against them. He told me if I want to use a vibrator on myself to go ahead, but he really isn't interested.

And here I was led to believe that all guys were totally into that stuff, that kink and kinky sex turned them on. I can't even get my guy to explore even a little kink. LOL

And my guy's like your guy--I can wait for him, he can pleasure me, and I don't need no toy to do the pleasuring. I think it's a little bit about insecurity, that maybe the sex toy will please us more than they do.

Sigh.

Oh, sure. Toys are awesome. But we have an agreement that we only use them together. It's not to replace one of us, just to enhance our experience together.

Fine by us, depending on what it is... but not for alone personal use.

My hubby does not mind it. But here's what you can do without him knowing.

OK - TMI! here goes.

You can get a silver bullet, and keep it in your box of tampons. (It is a really small vibrator that is the size of your thumb.. and packs a PUNCH!) He will not even notice it. Then you can get a bigger one that does not even look like a toy.. erm! (MIne is made of glass. looks like an ornament, with blue swirls and nobbs.. looks like a hand blown glass ornament. - But you can heat it under hot water or keep it on ice... hehe - does not vibrate but I use it with the bullet)

Or just get one you know HE will like for himself, say some kind of "ring that vibrates" and surprise him... He might just change his mind... I get mine from adamandeve.com and they often have half price with free shipping..

I bought Sunday night- I guess I was in a rush to get hm! I left my phone there & someone stole it :/ and what's worst the vibrator sucked!! I use it when he's not hm. I also need a good one :)

I can't say he is "against" them, he simply has no interest and I don't really either.