I guess we really do not have fights. To me fights are yelling and usually not handled in an mature adult way. We disagree, which we then discuss on how we can compromise.
Disagree on:
-- money (priorities on spending, why it cost "SOOO much" for clothes, shoes, makeup, food which I just give him the receipt to show this is what I spent I did not get much but quality... life is not cheap)
-- discipline (he thinks I am too soft since I go by love and logic, where at times I think the punishment is to harsh or does not fit)
-- Helping out with paying for college, my daughter is 5 is this is way in the future BUT we strongly disagree on this one. My dad helped me out, I did have a job throughout college, I did take out a student loan but he did help out and I WILL be doing the same for my daughter (not paying for all but helping out). My husband says he had NO help and that is the way it will be for his daughter... the thing is his parents tell me otherwise, he had to pay for college BUT they helped out with room/board, books and clothes. So there will be MANY long discussions on this when we get closer, we do have a college fund already started for our daughter so she will have a good chunck of change from us.