I would like to add.
There is a difference from asking, "Could you watch the kids this Saturday night while dad and I go out?" We will give you $20.
Than saying, "you will be watching the kids on Sat night so dad and I can go out"
or " I need you to watch the kids so dad and I can go out.".. The first way you are asking if the child is willing.. The second way sounds like an expectation..
Yes, children should help around the house, but these are not their kids.. If you trust them to watch your most valuable people in the world, be sure to show your gratitude and trust, with the reward of more grown up freedoms and a reward for their exceptional help. Please do not take it for granted.
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I would pay her $5.00 per hour.. Or a set amount.. $15. for 4. hours..~ Usually it is $10 to $12. for 2 children from a babysitter..
Having multiple children for free babysitting, is not a good idea.. Makes the older children resent their parents. Household chores are one thing but taking an older child for granted as a babysitter, is too much..