K.I.
well, my son is almost 12 months and about a week ago I started replacing 2 of his daily bottles with a cup of milk (about 6 oz.) So now he eats breakfast in the morning, like pancakes or eggs and he finishes w/ his cup of milk. I give him a 6 oz bottle before his nap around 11:30/noon (after he eats a little food). He then eats a meal around 3 and gets a small cup of water or milk w/ that (maybe 4 or 6 oz) and then dinner around 6:30 in which he also gets a little bit of water or milk. He then gets a 6 oz bottle before bed (7:30) but most of the time he is full enough not to even drink it all. He always goes to bed w/ a full belly. Babies/children should be able to sleep through the night by now w/o waking up hungry..try giving her a full dinner w/ milk closer to her bedtime (and i think 10 or 11 is so late, but maybe that works best for you guys??) and a smaller bottle at night - eventually she wont even need the bottle. You may have to give her a cup of milk before bed but thats no biggie. It should be whole milk too..they need the milk fat for their brain development.