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Even if she was right (or not) it wasn't the way. Your delivery due is very important, and if is true that you would want to have a profecional you also NEED a caring understand person. With my DD #2 I decide to VBAC and I spend most of my pregnancy with a doctor that was so cold and rude. One day he ask me how much my first daughter weight and I told him I didn't remeber and he told me " Why you give her away? He often will tell me I would die (no kidding) if I try to VBAC!!
It was when I decide to change doctors and I am sooo glad I did. My new doctor was so caring, calm and he even make me laught between contractions!
I want to think that your doctor maybe just had a bad day, so if she has been good normally I sugest that you talk to her. This is not time to be shy, tell her you think she is a good doctor but her actitud make you feel uncomfortable.
If she is not the one you are still early and I am sure you will find a new doctor, I found my second one at 30 weeks!!