J.C.
You must be an amazing person to continue on with this party when you are suffering so much. Just recovering from surgery is a lot but knowing you have to go back for more in 3-4 months...ugh No wonder you are overwhelmed.
Is there anyway you could have the party out and not at your house?
I broke my wrist ( not even a bad break) but boy was I ever tired. Just doing a load of laundry, or even taking a shower required so much effort!
Take care of yourself. Hopefully the worst part is behind you.