M.K.
E.:
I used to think I had to have a big fancy party and then I thought, why? I personally think the big parties are because the parents are trying to keep up with the other parents!
For my son, we've always had his friends and classmates over for a typical cake and ice cream party with games, etc. I let them play outside and just have fun! It's a lot less expensive and hectic.
One year, I made a pinata and he and his friends had a great time. Another year, we did a camping party with a camp fire and roasted marshmallows and hot dogs.
I've always heard good reports from the parents and kids that they really enjoyed the parties. The best thing is they all had fun and I didn't have to go into debt just for appearance sake!!
Good Luck!!