The agreement I had with my husband is that if I had to have my second child c-section, I would have my tubes tied. Since I didnt, he had a vasectomy.
Of course the decision is up to you, but my husband was in and out of the doctors office in less than 2 hours. He followed the doctor's directions and did not have any problems. In fact, he had the best golf game he ever had 5 days after the procedure.
My opinion is that us women go throug a lot to have children. They are a blessing. But men can take some responsibility in prevention.
To sum it up 2 hours (for men) vs. out patient in a hospital for women.
Again the decision is between you and your husband.
I wish you well in deciding what is best for you.