S.S.
D., dear,
please honey,
find a greater value in YOURSELF.
Lets take a different view:
if your child was an adult
and she had a man hitting her
and MANIPULATING her in such ways,
how would you council her?
Consider this too:
what you are living
and the way you are doing so (in this drama)
IS teaching your children.
Your husband definitely needs help,
but honey, so do you.
Where is YOUR empowerment?
People who are both lacking in their hearts
are rarely a compatible happy couple.
Two folks who are HAPPY with themselves
are much more likely to have
a wonderful blessed relationship together.
Your children are certainly capable
of deciding the kind of man your husband is
without you being married to him.
Keep any badmouthing to yourself
and let their relationship remain ongoing
(so long as he is in no way abusive to them)
while you MOVE ON.
By moving on I do NOT mean
you go find another man.
I mean you find what you believe is Sacred
within your life and in your own heart.
I've been there, with a series of manipulative men,
(two of them fathered my sweet children).
One must have a sure value of Self.
When you see yourself as Worthy,
then you'll be more available to Fabulous relationships.
When you see yourself as anything less than worthy,
you'll keep drawing relationships which devalue you.
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May you find peace in your heart
and love in your Self.
I'm praying for you D..
S.